Talking with parents that have grown old can be rather tiring – due to
the age gap, it can often lead to conflicts and different problems. An
artist named Alexander Galitski has been working with older people for
years, teaching them how to make wood sculptures or how to paint. Here
are his tips that will help you communicate with your aging parents
easier:
1. Don’t try to change them
When we were kids, it was exhausting to hear about that neighbor’s
boy who has perfect scores and who always listens to his parents. Now
that they’re old, you’re probably going to hear how the neighbor “goes
out every day, while you sit all day inside doing nothing”. Although it
can be pretty annoying to hear them talk like that, don’t try to change
them. You just can’t change people in that age – accept them as they
are.
2. Avoid conflicts
Just like with children, you need to be patient with older parents.
Don’t react to their aggression or grudges – if you do it, you lose.
Listen to them and try to solve the real problem – it’s the only way not
to feel guilty in the end
3. Don’t expect the conversation to be pleasant
They get nervous and moody just like us. Hey, they’re only human
after all. Whenever they’re angry, try talking to them and never spare
them just because they’re old.
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