As a man I’ve observed, through my personal
interactions with women, that there are basic things
that the majority of women do that hinder
winning over a man’s heart. Understanding these
things can help women not sabotage their own
relationships.
8. Being clingy:
I’m an exception among men, because I love a clingy
woman; but most men hate it. Take it easy! Don’t
obsess over him. Don’t try to claim “ownership.” You
must earn him, not kidnap him.
9. Having no opinion:
Another quite annoying thing is when a woman won’t
let the man know how she truly thinks and feels.
Frankness and sincerity must be a two-way street.
Men dislike when women change their opinions to
match what they think the man wants to hear.
7. Being jealous:
Jealousy usually comes from insecurity. Unless you
want a quick exit to single life, learn to love yourself
as much as you love your man. Analyze your own
feelings and the possible causes of your insecurity,
and then look at your relationship. How is it now and
how do you wish it were? Then talk to him and try to
negotiate a solution. You can only win!
5. Despising the Golden Rule:
The rule “Treat others as you wish to be treated” is
very effective in dating. Do not expect him to treat
you like a queen if you don’t treat him like a king. If
he shows interest first and you don’t return it,
beware: He could give up on you. Reciprocity is
everything.
6. Trying to control him:
Ladies, this is seriously a horribly annoying behavior.
No one likes to be given constant orders. Men run
away from women who try to change their habits.
Sure, some bad habits (like consistently ditching you
for his friends) need to be improved — but not by
force. If you value your relationship, you need to
know that trying to control your man will only drive
him away. If he has nasty habits that you’ve discussed
with him, and he doesn’t wish to change, move on
and look for someone better suited for you.
4. Being too shy:
You need to overcome the fear of initiating a
conversation with someone who interests you, as
well as allowing that person to approach you.
Shyness denotes insecurity, and can make you seem
immature. There is absolutely nothing wrong with
making the first move. If you don’t approach him,
chances are someone else will, and you’ll miss out on
a great opportunity.
3. Not taking care of your body:
You don’t have to have perfect curves; but do your
best to stay in shape and keep looking good. It helps
with so many things — from getting a job to getting a boyfriend!
God made your body, and you should take care of it.
A woman not taking care of her body comes across
as one who doesn’t care about herself enough to
respect her own body. The message it sends to men
is, “If I do not respect and like myself, why should
you?”
1. Using s*x as a weapon: I’m not
specifically referring to s*x Itself, but rather using your body to get all the
attention. Ladies, keep in mind that your
image is like a magnet. You attract the type of person that you are presenting yourself as. If you are overly drawing attention to your body, you’ll attract
superficial, shallow men instead of intelligent,educated and sensible ones.
A smart woman uses her mind, not her body, because she knows her beauty is actually in her personality, rather than her appearance alone. Physical attraction can bring temporary satisfaction;
but personality and character are what actually form a rewarding relationship. Those should be your focus.
2. Being unambitious and Smart:
Educated men will not be interested in you if
you’re way below them intellectually. Raise your standards!
Get a higher education, work toward an ambitious career, read inspirational books to keep your mind active, attend museums and art exhibitions, learn
about other cultures and travel when possible, etc. If your standards are high, you’ll attract men with similar standards who are genuinely interested in you.
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